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A gentle meditation using simple well-wishes to cultivate kindness toward yourself and gradually extend it to others.
Loving-kindness meditation uses silently repeated well-wishes as an object of attention and intention. You do not need to force yourself to feel loving or peaceful. The practice is to offer sincere wishes for well-being, often beginning with yourself or someone who naturally evokes warmth, then gradually widening the circle. When attention wanders, notice it and return to the phrases without judging yourself.
如何修习
Sit comfortably and set a timer for about 10 to 15 minutes. Take a few natural breaths, then choose three or four simple phrases such as may I be safe, may I be healthy, may I be peaceful, and may I live with ease. Repeat each phrase slowly for several minutes. Then bring to mind someone you care about and change the wording to may you. If it feels steady, extend the wishes to a neutral person or a wider group. Finish with a few quiet breaths.
从小处开始，选择合适的节奏，并允许自己明天再回来。
- 选择一段较短的时间，例如五分钟。
- 需要时放慢速度，留意正在发生的事。
- 以一声钟响或一次有意识的呼吸结束。
温馨提醒
Do not force a strong emotion or use warmth as a score for whether the meditation worked. Some days the phrases may feel natural; on other days they may feel flat or uncomfortable. Both experiences can be part of practice. If bringing someone to mind creates too much distress, return to yourself or an easier person. Keep the words simple, believable, and gentle enough to repeat.
常见问题
Where should I begin?
Sit comfortably and set a timer for about 10 to 15 minutes. Take a few natural breaths, then choose three or four simple phrases such as may I be safe, may I be healthy, may I be peaceful, and may I live with ease. Repeat each phrase slowly for several minutes. Then bring to mind someone you care about and change the wording to may you. If it feels steady, extend the wishes to a neutral person or a wider group. Finish with a few quiet breaths.
What if I only have a little time today?
Use the smallest possible version, even if it is only one minute. Keeping a small appointment with yourself is often more useful than waiting for a perfect window.
Do I need to do it perfectly?
Do not force a strong emotion or use warmth as a score for whether the meditation worked. Some days the phrases may feel natural; on other days they may feel flat or uncomfortable. Both experiences can be part of practice. If bringing someone to mind creates too much distress, return to yourself or an easier person. Keep the words simple, believable, and gentle enough to repeat. The aim is to notice and return, not to create the same experience every day.
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A gentle meditation using simple well-wishes to cultivate kindness toward yourself and gradually extend it to others.
打开木鱼开始修习